UNBECOMING

Journal Activity - May 18, 2025

I was having a conversation with one of my Leadership Academy students recently and we were talking about the version of themself that they were growing into.

Through that conversation we also discussed the things that they had to UNBECOME in their life so that they could become the version of themself that they wanted to be. They had to UNBECOME the little kid they once were. The had to UNBECOME selfish. They had to UNBECOME being angry.

Each of these UNBECOMINGS was an intentional choice they had to make and grow away from. It is something we all have to do to grow.

Maybe the journey isn’t about becoming anything.

Maybe it is about UNBECOMING everything that isn’t really you, so that you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.

Paulo Coelho

I AM UNBECOMING

UNBECOMING who I thought I had to be in order to be loved.

UNBECOMING cultural stereotypes and people’s opinions of who I should be.

UNBECOMING a person driven by trauma, pain, and generational curses.

UNBECOMING the person waiting for permission to live a bold, bright life.

But I choose to peel back the layers to UNBECOME and embrace the beauty of WHO I AM.

Author Unknown

JOURNAL ACTIVITY

Identify 2-3 was you have UNBECOME in your growth as an athlete or person.

Identify one area that you would like to UNBECOME as an athlete or person.

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